Sometimes when i get up in the morning, everything looks so bright and joyful but few mornings are really lethargic and off the mark.
Sometimes i want to complete all the work which is pending and get ready, few days just goes by not doing anything, not even the basic things which you should be doing.
Sometimes the evenings are so pleasant, and few evenings are depressing.
Is it just the weather, or the people around you or you yourself who is the reason for all this.
Why this happens and i am sure this has happened to all of us in our life time.
Is it like when we are happy, every thing around us seems so joyful and when we are not happy, everything is so dull.
I think we all know the answer to this question but sometimes you would want to write few word to express yourself.
Showing posts with label Others. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Others. Show all posts
Friday, April 16, 2010
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Missing weddings has become a trend
I have not seen any wedding since my wedding...
Many weddings have come by and gone but i was always on the other side of the ocean to attend any of those.
When ever i see the snaps of my family and friends enjoying all the fun of the wedding,i am jealous.
People say that you have to sacrifice some things in order to get some and, in marriage, you have to compromise.....I feel thats all true ...In marraige you have to compromise and i also compromised a lot....you guys will be curious to know what i sacrificed....all the marriages since my marriage.....;)
Its just that my circumstances have been always different during any marriage time and forunately or unfortunately, i am not able to attend....How my marriage has played a part in this? To be honest, its just a cliche but my marriage has nothing to do with me not attending marriages but it has always been my work....why i said marriage before becuase if i would not have got married, i would not have missed so many of them becuase i would not be a part of my new family then where all of them happened (Tarun's side cousins) :) Howz that....
But i stll miss all the festivites and hasna gana .....I miss you guys....
Many weddings have come by and gone but i was always on the other side of the ocean to attend any of those.
When ever i see the snaps of my family and friends enjoying all the fun of the wedding,i am jealous.
People say that you have to sacrifice some things in order to get some and, in marriage, you have to compromise.....I feel thats all true ...In marraige you have to compromise and i also compromised a lot....you guys will be curious to know what i sacrificed....all the marriages since my marriage.....;)
Its just that my circumstances have been always different during any marriage time and forunately or unfortunately, i am not able to attend....How my marriage has played a part in this? To be honest, its just a cliche but my marriage has nothing to do with me not attending marriages but it has always been my work....why i said marriage before becuase if i would not have got married, i would not have missed so many of them becuase i would not be a part of my new family then where all of them happened (Tarun's side cousins) :) Howz that....
But i stll miss all the festivites and hasna gana .....I miss you guys....
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Perspective of Things in Life !
How different things are seen differently by different people....
Too many times, DIFFERENT...but that is the fact.
All of us are different and think differently.
I wonder, how simple things for me are so tough for others and many simple things for others are so tough for me.
When something can happen easily by others and i can see people doing it, why it has become a hell of a task for me.
I tend to think some times, when people least expect something or dont want it, they would get it and for others, even after a lot of hard work and effort, the same thing is far far away.
Dont know if any one has the explainations to any of the thoughts above.
But eventually, everything boils down to the Almighty.....
What ever happens, happens for good is the phrase which everyone uses in his life atleast once.
Kismat se zayda and waqt se pehle kuchh nahin milta is another one on the same lines..
Are these real phrases which are facts of life depending on GOD or these are just the excuses which have been framed centuries before and the man is still hooking to them?
I just finished "The Lost Symbol" by Dan Brown and though it is fiction, it has still forced me to think: Do the above phrases mean anything or man can be god if he controls his mind.
Not sure about anything of the above....
Too many times, DIFFERENT...but that is the fact.
All of us are different and think differently.
I wonder, how simple things for me are so tough for others and many simple things for others are so tough for me.
When something can happen easily by others and i can see people doing it, why it has become a hell of a task for me.
I tend to think some times, when people least expect something or dont want it, they would get it and for others, even after a lot of hard work and effort, the same thing is far far away.
Dont know if any one has the explainations to any of the thoughts above.
But eventually, everything boils down to the Almighty.....
What ever happens, happens for good is the phrase which everyone uses in his life atleast once.
Kismat se zayda and waqt se pehle kuchh nahin milta is another one on the same lines..
Are these real phrases which are facts of life depending on GOD or these are just the excuses which have been framed centuries before and the man is still hooking to them?
I just finished "The Lost Symbol" by Dan Brown and though it is fiction, it has still forced me to think: Do the above phrases mean anything or man can be god if he controls his mind.
Not sure about anything of the above....
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Life - An *Unknown* Journey
We all are moving at a very fast pace leaving everything behind us. Keep on running behind life, for life, whatever you may want to say….
Running so fast and suddenly something happens..something stucks to you..it is that something which halts you, make you stop, making you realize that there is something more than what we live, how we live.
A sudden shock in your life and your life just stops for probably few seconds, few minutes, few hrs and for some few years. Depends on the nature of shock and how close you are to that reality.
It has happened many a times in my life when I am made realized by nature that there is a POWER above all who control all our lives. But in the past one year, I have realized this twice. Two people whom I have known for not much time, interacted with them few times, were there in my list of known people are no more in this world.
Two people very different from each other in every aspect but one thing in common – both handled same module in my previous project. Both these people were pillars of that module which is the most critical module in the project.
Tragic death for both of them : Heart Attack and train accident.
As usual on both the days, I came to office with a new day, as usual running behind work, when suddenly something pops up from no where. – NEWS of death which you would never want to hear in your life..but here it comes showing its power to all of us.
Got very upset today thinking life is so unreal, so harsh. Don’t know when you say bye to a person, are you ever going to meet him again…I just don’t like this very reality of life. I hate it. Why it happens?
Lets take a break, stop and think about our lives and what we want from our life before something stucks to us…lets try to live life rather than running for life…
I know this news would be old soon and everyone would start again (who stopped in between, for some the race was ongoing), getting set on their tracks for the next relay until….
Running so fast and suddenly something happens..something stucks to you..it is that something which halts you, make you stop, making you realize that there is something more than what we live, how we live.
A sudden shock in your life and your life just stops for probably few seconds, few minutes, few hrs and for some few years. Depends on the nature of shock and how close you are to that reality.
It has happened many a times in my life when I am made realized by nature that there is a POWER above all who control all our lives. But in the past one year, I have realized this twice. Two people whom I have known for not much time, interacted with them few times, were there in my list of known people are no more in this world.
Two people very different from each other in every aspect but one thing in common – both handled same module in my previous project. Both these people were pillars of that module which is the most critical module in the project.
Tragic death for both of them : Heart Attack and train accident.
As usual on both the days, I came to office with a new day, as usual running behind work, when suddenly something pops up from no where. – NEWS of death which you would never want to hear in your life..but here it comes showing its power to all of us.
Got very upset today thinking life is so unreal, so harsh. Don’t know when you say bye to a person, are you ever going to meet him again…I just don’t like this very reality of life. I hate it. Why it happens?
Lets take a break, stop and think about our lives and what we want from our life before something stucks to us…lets try to live life rather than running for life…
I know this news would be old soon and everyone would start again (who stopped in between, for some the race was ongoing), getting set on their tracks for the next relay until….
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